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Daddy Dom Skills : Impact Play ~ Pain as a Portal

Welcome to the second class in the Daddy Dom Skills Series!

This is a Level 2 initiation into impact play — designed for those ready to deepen their skill, confidence, and capacity to work consciously with intensity.

When done well, impact play becomes a practice of trust, surrender, heightened awareness and exquisite sensation — where both Dominant and submissive are fully engaged, responsive, and alive.

In this experiential workshop you’ll practice both delivering and receiving different types of impact. We’ll build on the skills we practiced in class one and explore the energies of containment + penetration as well as the archetypes of Dominant + submissive as they pertain to creating scenes with impact play.

What We’ll Explore

  • How to keep yourself and your partner safe while exploring the edges that keep things tantalizing

  • Embodied attunement, real time tracking and creating intensity consciously

  • Delivering the energies of containment + penetration through impact

  • Moving with rhythm, building anticipation, and the element of surprise

  • Communicating ongoing consent while keeping polarity alive

  • Using your hands ~ no tools necessary when you ARE the tool

  • Adding in tools to create a symphony of sensations

  • Pain as a portal into presence, surrender, pleasure and even healing

  • Impact as a gateway into altered states, subspace, and devotional submission 🫠

Pre-requisite

To ensure a shared language of safety, consent, and attunement, attending Daddy Dom Skills: Foundations ~ The Art of Containment + Penetration is required before coming to this Level Two workshop.


Who This Class Is For:

  • Those who loved Daddy Dom Skills: Foundations ~ The Art of Containment + Penetration and are ready for more

  • People ready to explore pain with intention, skill, and care

  • Dominants wanting to deliver intensity responsibly and with attunement

  • Submissives curious about surrender, sensation, and altered states

  • Switches who love it allllll

  • All genders and sexual orientations welcome

  • All ages above 18 welcome

  • No prior experience in impact is necessary — just a willingness to explore, play, and open to the alchemy of Dominance and submission

  • Know that you are welcome to opt in or out at your level of comfort — you do you boo! Watching is an excellent form of participation 


Come with a partner if you’d like to practice in class.

Impact play requires sustained attunement, trust, and continuity, and this container is designed for partnered exploration.

You’re welcome to:

  • Come with a lover

  • Come with a trusted friend

  • Use our Daddy Dom Skills WhatsApp group to connect with someone who is also seeking a practice partner

You do not need a pre-existing Dom/sub dynamic — just shared willingness, care, and consent.

If there’s someone you’d like to come with who hasn’t yet taking Daddy Dom Skills Foundations we’re holding one on January 16th — have them scoop a ticket HERE.

Or come solo as a sacred witness.

You’re welcome to attend without a partner to watch, learn, feel into the transmission, and receive the teachings through observation. Sacred witnessing is a powerful form of participation, and you’re invited to honor your edges and capacity.


What to Wear

  • Dress in a way that helps you embody your Dominant or submissive energy and makes you feel hot AF

  • Think: leather, lingerie, suits, collars, corsets, chest harnesses, boots, silky fabrics, kitty ears — anything that gets you into the vibe you’re excited to explore

  • Make sure you’re comfortable and can easily sit and move around to handle and be handled

  • Undress to your level of YES knowing that panties will stay on for the entire evening

  • Please arrive to the venue in street clothing ~ wear a layer you can easily remove upon arrival or feel free to change on-site


What to Bring

  • Your water bottle

  • A journal + pen for notes if you’re a verrrry good kitty

  • Optional: Impact toys! Floggers, paddles, crops, sensation tools. We will have plenty of toys for you to use in class and available for purchase if you decide you’d like to take one home

  • We recommend eating a light dinner beforehand as we will not be serving snacks and you won’t want to be super hungry or too full

  • This is a substance free space. We are working with the medicines of presence, pain, power and eros (which are HIGHLY potent). Please do not come under the influence of any substance

  • Your dirty mind and kinky spirit

  • A willing partner

Facilitated by Julia Vieau

At heart, Julia is a devoted submissive—soft, open, and wired for surrender. In recent years, she has fallen in love with her inner Daddy Domme, cultivating a presence that’s refined, intentional, and dripping with delicious authority. She now moves fluidly between both poles of power and vulnerability, exploring the exquisite tension where dominance meets devotion.

Co-facilitated by Kayla Rodriguez

Kayla is a kinky lil kitten and a pain slut extraordinaire. She’s got SO much wisdom in the realms of alchemizing pain into delightful sensation and often has the cutie bruises to prove it.


Purchase a ticket below:

Or CLICK HERE to purchase a ticket on Humanitix



Stay tuned! In 2026 we’ll be expanding the Daddy Dom Series. Coming up on the calendar we’ve got:

💖 Daddy Dom Skills : The Healing Power of Humiliation

💖 Daddy Dom Skills : Rope Bunny Basics ~ Tethering + Titillation

In order to deepen safely and skillfully together, this Foundations class must be completed before attending any additional Daddy Dom offerings.

Have questions or curiosities about this event?

Get in touch with Julia at julia@exquisiteintimacy.com 

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